As winter approaches, I find myself at a crossroads. For a while now, I’ve been feeling the need to break away from the confines of the city, from the routine of traditional work. The idea of remote work has been tugging at me, but the constant changes make it hard to settle into something sustainable.…
There comes a point in everyone’s life when the pressure builds up, and no matter how hard you push, it feels like you’re stuck in place. For some, this moment is fleeting, but for others, like myself, it becomes a constant battle. Recently, I’ve found myself standing at the edge of burnout, feeling like I’m…
A Blend of Natural Wonder and Personal MemoriesNiagara Falls is one of those iconic places that almost everyone wants to visit at least once in their lifetime, and I’ve had the privilege of being there many times. There’s a certain charm about it—something that never really fades, no matter how often you go. For me,…
Where to Plant Roots for Your Ideal LifestyleMan, I’ve been stuck in this back-and-forth decision on where to plant roots—Panama or Belize. Both have their appeal, but when you start really breaking it down, things get a lot more complicated. I’m weighing everything from how far my money will stretch, to the vibe, to something…
My Journey Through Mental HealthFor years, I kept my depression bottled up. I carried the weight of it with me, day after day, trying to manage it alone. I convinced myself that I had to be strong, that showing vulnerability would only make things worse. But eventually, the pressure became too much, and I found…
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been told that I’m dreaming too big, that my plans are too ambitious, or that I’m setting myself up for disappointment. But every time I hear these doubts, I think about the countless stories of people who’ve broken away from the system, who’ve dared to live life…
Water has always been my element. It feels like my second nature is a fish; give me access to a pool, and I’ll be in it every single day, without fail. But where I live now, swimming in the local lake is out of the question. Pollution has left the water unsafe, and even though…
Self-doubt is like an invisible anchor, weighing you down just when you’re ready to set sail. It’s that nagging voice that whispers, “Are you sure you’re good enough?” right when you’re about to take a leap. For me, self-doubt has been a lifelong companion, showing up not just in my pursuit of building a presence…
Hey everyone! Welcome to GetItJay.com – a space where I’m sharing my journey of breaking free from the ordinary, finding new ways to live and work, and discovering what life is really about. If you don’t know me yet, I’m GetItJay, a nickname I’ve had since high school, and this blog is where I’ll be…
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